“Menghantar Berian” means delivering gifts which consists of all the requests during the engagement ceremony, and may also include additional gifts by the groom. The bride would also, if she so wishes, respond in kind. The delivery of the gifts is usually a grand affair, with an entourage of men or women carrying silver trays adorned with beautiful cloths on top of which would display each gift.
“Akad Nikah” is the solemnisation ceremony. It is presided over by a religious official and only involves the groom. the bride is not usually present but she will be represented by her father or a “wali” (legal family representative). Here, under the grace of Allah (God), the groom vows to accept the bride’s hand in front of witnesses.
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